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#81 Mogho Naaba

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Posted 27 November 2006 - 11:51 AM

QUOTE (Oshun @ Nov 26 2006, 01:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL



Just to let ya'll know i never started it though!


Yes you did!

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Posted 28 November 2006 - 12:28 AM

QUOTE (Mogho Naaba @ Nov 27 2006, 11:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes you did!


No i never! It was you wid ya popcorn eating!
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#83 Mogho Naaba

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Posted 28 November 2006 - 12:49 AM

QUOTE (Oshun @ Nov 28 2006, 12:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No i never! It was you wid ya popcorn eating!


But you encouraged me to tease you!!! tongue.gif

#84 Djehutis Wisdom

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Posted 28 November 2006 - 12:52 AM

QUOTE (Mogho Naaba @ Nov 28 2006, 12:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But you encouraged me to tease you!!! tongue.gif


I think you should put that tongue back now MN. I'm actually starting to get worried about you. huh.gif
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#85 Mogho Naaba

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Posted 28 November 2006 - 01:02 AM

QUOTE (Djehutis Wisdom @ Nov 28 2006, 12:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think you should put that tongue back now MN. I'm actually starting to get worried about you. huh.gif


Wtf?! Why you getting worried bout me? This is a likkle ting between me Osh. If you're worried about my sanity, then I think I'm aiight upstairs lol.

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Posted 28 November 2006 - 01:07 AM

QUOTE (Djehutis Wisdom @ Nov 25 2006, 08:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Think about the title of the thread, then think about the numerous references to eating and chocolate ice cream and you will get it i'm sure.



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Posted 28 November 2006 - 01:12 AM

QUOTE (Mogho Naaba @ Nov 28 2006, 01:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wtf?! Why you getting worried bout me? This is a likkle ting between me Osh. If you're worried about my sanity, then I think I'm aiight upstairs lol.


Alright cool. Just checking. I just needed to make sure one of my favourite posters wasn't losing it.
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#88 Mogho Naaba

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Posted 28 November 2006 - 01:21 AM

QUOTE (Djehutis Wisdom @ Nov 28 2006, 01:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Alright cool. Just checking. I just needed to make sure one of my favourite posters wasn't losing it.


Nah I'm safe man. Just a case of brotha and sistren exchanging 'tupid banter for the hell of it! biggrin.gif

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 12:15 AM

Now come on {adopts teacher voice and sits up straight in chair!} enough of this silliness someone had a serious question....

QUOTE (Timeline @ Nov 27 2006, 01:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I notice that this is in the "Love and Relationships" section.

Aside from homosexual sex, since it is the only option for gay men, do you think love can be expressed through the act of anal sex between a man and a woman?

I ask this because in popular culture anal sex seems to be associated with pain, and some say that sadomasochist activities are a sign of psychological defect rather than love.

So is anal sex the antithesis of a loving relationship between a man and a woman, or just an expansion (no pun intended) of that love through new sexual exploration?


Well i don't think it can be an expression of love really. If you loved someone and you knew that that would cause them pain and dicomfort you wouldn't continue would you? Quite frankly i think this type of sexual act comes down to just using another person like a tool for your own sexual gratifications because i think they're is little thought about the receiver ( blink.gif ) going on.

I don't no how true this is having never explored down there on anyone but apparently men have they're G spot up their rectum so i can see why it may be pleasurable for them, but women have no such thing up there so this just furthers my point.

Which brings me onto doggy position, now i know that this is a popular postion with most African men but as the two holes are a little over an inch apart i wonder whether one is compesating for the other ... if you get my meaning? blink.gif
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Posted 08 December 2006 - 12:25 AM

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Which brings me onto doggy position, now i know that this is a popular postion with most African men but as the two holes are a little over an inch apart i wonder whether one is compesating for the other ... if you get my meaning? blink.gif




It depends on whether one decides to pot the brown as opposed to potting the pink! laugh.gif
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Posted 08 December 2006 - 12:31 AM

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It depends on whether one decides to pot the brown as opposed to potting the pink! laugh.gif


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Posted 08 December 2006 - 01:47 AM

QUOTE (Oshun @ Dec 8 2006, 12:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Now come on {adopts teacher voice and sits up straight in chair!} enough of this silliness someone had a serious question....
Well i don't think it can be an expression of love really. If you loved someone and you knew that that would cause them pain and dicomfort you wouldn't continue would you? Quite frankly i think this type of sexual act comes down to just using another person like a tool for your own sexual gratifications because i think they're is little thought about the receiver ( blink.gif ) going on.

I don't no how true this is having never explored down there on anyone but apparently men have they're G spot up their rectum so i can see why it may be pleasurable for them, but women have no such thing up there so this just furthers my point.

Which brings me onto doggy position, now i know that this is a popular postion with most African men but as the two holes are a little over an inch apart i wonder whether one is compesating for the other ... if you get my meaning? blink.gif


African Americans tend to be more open talking about sexual matters so when I was browsing one message board, NUFF women said them love to get it front and back way.

80% of the time doggy style is hitting the p****, the rest of the time brothas are slamming that ass.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 07:38 AM

QUOTE (Oshun @ Dec 8 2006, 12:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Now come on {adopts teacher voice and sits up straight in chair!} enough of this silliness someone had a serious question....
Well i don't think it can be an expression of love really. If you loved someone and you knew that that would cause them pain and dicomfort you wouldn't continue would you? Quite frankly i think this type of sexual act comes down to just using another person like a tool for your own sexual gratifications because i think they're is little thought about the receiver ( blink.gif ) going on.


but sadomasochists/bondage and discipline enjoy pain; they equate it with pleasure. Do you think it is a "defect in wiring" or a valid sexual desire to be harmed (or harm) or completely dominated during sex? I understand you point about women who don't want it, but do it for their men (who couldn't care less whether it hurt) but what about the sadomasochists?


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Which brings me onto doggy position, now i know that this is a popular postion with most African men but as the two holes are a little over an inch apart i wonder whether one is compesating for the other ... if you get my meaning? blink.gif


I wonder about that too because the holes are very close together and I have seen pornos (not that many) where, in the heat of the moment, the male sticks his finger in the other hole. So I do wonder how many fantasize about one hole while penetrating the other.

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Posted 16 December 2006 - 01:53 AM

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So I do wonder how many fantasize about one hole while penetrating the other.


My experience hitting it from the back is limited but I've never had the desire to stick anything in anyones batty.

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Posted 27 December 2006 - 05:55 PM

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My experience hitting it from the back is limited but I've never had the desire to stick anything in anyones batty.


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Posted 04 January 2007 - 07:26 PM

Ok now listen, i was watching a comedy clip yeaterday and at the end of the clip the comedian was telling some joke about how he got attacked (read bummed) and how his woman was making fun of him saying oh you don't like it whens its done to you but its ok when you try to do it to me, i thought you said it wouldn't hurt!! blink.gif

Now i realise its up to folk what they get up to in the privacy of they're own rar rar, but i just wish people would be honest about it, quite often the ones who are so vehemently vocal against gays are the ones who don't mind abit of bum business as an aperitif to the main course!!!
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Posted 04 January 2007 - 07:39 PM

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Preach it Oshun!!!

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 08:12 PM

I guess anal sex is like Marmite, some like it, most normal people don't!

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 08:45 PM

QUOTE (PantherWoman @ Jun 6 2006, 07:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
although your euphemisms are making me blush, I have to ask...are you saying that you reckon only a few men have ever experienced the 'sexual highs' you describe??

Also, the kinkiness you speak of...care to explain how you know that the 'anal flex' has more to do with latent homosexuality than passion or pleasure? The reason I ask is because I know there are people who would disagree. It is said the anal area harbours many nerve endings, making it sensitive to touch; and that for men there is a spot like the G-spot right up inside their bum that can increase the intensity of their orgasms.

Now I would have to ask what kind of man - who doesn't have homosexual leanings - would want someone inserting things into their bottom?? But then again, some men are just kinky and want to try everything they heard feels good, and also some men might get it put on them unexpected...sure I've read some Jackie Collins novel where the woman does this to the man and although he is not gay and wasn't aware of what she was about to do, he explodes, shouts her name in a fit of ecstasy and comes like he has never come before in his life! You done know plenty of novelists base their stories on real life so no one needs to point out that it is fiction.

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You're right. The prostate is that G spot. I saw it on a porno. The woman put pearls in his ass and when she pulled them out, he came instantly. He was moaniing and groaning like a bitch. I couldn't understand that untill I found out about the male G spot. For men, having vaginal sex takes longer to reach orgasim, but men come right away if you poke them in the ass. Do that to them when they're not paying attention, they are going to want it again and again. My friend said she tossed her man's salad and played w his ass and now he's turned out on her. He don't need a man. He's got the best of both all in one.

There is a strange irony to that story about my friend; AND THIS IS NO PERSONAL ATTACK TO MUSLIMS IT'S ABOUT HOW HIPOCRITES COME IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES. She's muslim and she refuses to eat pork. BUT SHE'LL TOSS HER MAN'S SALAD??? HMMMM... I DON'T GET IT.

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 08:51 PM

QUOTE (Tafari Shabazz @ Dec 16 2006, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My experience hitting it from the back is limited but I've never had the desire to stick anything in anyones batty.



I'm laughing, but I'm sad too, maybe this needs rewording.
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