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#1 JOSIE

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 05:20 PM

clap.gif PLEASE READ! READ IT ALL.>
YOU WON'T BE DISAPPOINTED


>It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a
>Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad
she
>got
>what she asked for (and more) !!!
>
>Dear Jamie:
>
>I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male
readers.
>
>I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking,
educated
>and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes
about
>our relationship.
>
>My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women
were
>slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean,
too
>argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess
>baggage.
>
>Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly
approached by
>Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black
>women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they
>look at
>themselves and make some changes.
>
>I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in
>public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so
>appealing and coveted by them.
>
>Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles
Barkley,
>Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy
Jones,
>James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba
Gooding
>Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley
>Snipes...
>
>I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is
why I
>wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so
many
>of
>your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may
lead
>you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
>
>Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
>
>RESPONSE
>
>Dear Jamie:
>
>I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White
Girl.
>
>Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated
from
>one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a
>Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a
>major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider
>myself
to
>be
>among the ranks of successful black men.
>
>I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to
set
>the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day,
one
>of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they
>were
>considered easy.
>
>The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were
>very
>strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to.
>Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who
>would
give
>it
>up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
>
>Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because
they
>are
>docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
insecurities,
>fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength
of
>our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful
than
>us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses.
>Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman.
>Someone we
can
>control.
>
>I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on
how
>easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to
set
>the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all
>successful black men date white women.
>
>Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
>Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds,
Samuel
>L.
>Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the
>script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who
>openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson,
Robert
>DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
>
>I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop
thinking
>that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember,
>when
>black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling
Dynasties
>and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of europe eating
raw
>meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your
history!
>
>It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your
food. It
>was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was
>black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during
>slavery.
>
>It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
husbands,
>and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born
with
>two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through
all
>this, Still They Rise!
>
>It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and
>beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is
not
>just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not
the
>fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love
>them.
>
>Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.
Their
>strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their
ability
>to
>overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they
believe
>in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest
potential
>while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love
with
>black women.
>
>I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and
envy
>more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you
>continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so
>proud to be
white,
>then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you
continue
>to
>inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous
substances
>so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?
>
>I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what
the
>black woman has.
>
>BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk
over
>and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking
for
>a
>Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my
children.
>
>Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am
>looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
>you do
not
>and CANNOT fit the bill.
>
>No offense taken, none given.
>
>Signed, Black Royalty
>
>Wow!! We must pass this on to make the day of the Black Queens of our
>
>acquaintances!
>
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#2 Mogho Naaba

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 05:29 PM

This 'letter' is nearly 10 years old and its been covered many a time on this forum already.

#3 JOSIE

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 05:42 PM

QUOTE (Mogho Naaba @ Jan 4 2007, 05:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This 'letter' is nearly 10 years old and its been covered many a time on this forum already.




OH OK.
SORRY ABOUT THAT.
I GOT THAT IN AN EMAIL A LONG TIME AGO TOO BUT I STILL SHOW IT TO PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T READ IT YET. ESPECIALLY BLACK MEN WHO SAY THEY ARE GOING TO GO FIND A WHITE WOMAN BC BLACK WOMAN AIN'T SHIT

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 07:20 PM

QUOTE (JOSIE @ Jan 4 2007, 05:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OH OK.
SORRY ABOUT THAT.
I GOT THAT IN AN EMAIL A LONG TIME AGO TOO BUT I STILL SHOW IT TO PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T READ IT YET. ESPECIALLY BLACK MEN WHO SAY THEY ARE GOING TO GO FIND A WHITE WOMAN BC BLACK WOMAN AIN'T SHIT


You don't want to take too much notice of men who say that they're usually talking about themselves!
SHINE ON, daughter of a thousand generations, send your light fourth into this tired world...
SHINE ON, mother of a thousand dreams tend to those dreams with strength and compassion...
SHINE ON, woman of a thousand hopes, show everyone the beauty within you - the beauty that comes from knowing who you are

#5 Tafari Shabazz

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Posted 04 January 2007 - 08:14 PM

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You don't want to take too much notice of men who say that they're usually talking about themselves!


Shit likes shit!

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Posted 15 February 2007 - 02:15 AM

Ok thought i'd float this on the back of this thread as the title fits an all. You's lot need to see this group o brothers talking bout why they date white women yadda yadda...



This guy called Ocean fails to see that he's obviously attracting what he's putting out there so all these sisters who are horrible to him is just a reflection of himself...interesting





http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtoqYtvvg28

Well...
SHINE ON, daughter of a thousand generations, send your light fourth into this tired world...
SHINE ON, mother of a thousand dreams tend to those dreams with strength and compassion...
SHINE ON, woman of a thousand hopes, show everyone the beauty within you - the beauty that comes from knowing who you are

#7 Mogho Naaba

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Posted 18 February 2007 - 04:36 PM

QUOTE (Oshun @ Feb 15 2007, 02:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok thought i'd float this on the back of this thread as the title fits an all. You's lot need to see this group o brothers talking bout why they date white women yadda yadda...



This guy called Ocean fails to see that he's obviously attracting what he's putting out there so all these sisters who are horrible to him is just a reflection of himself...interesting





http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtoqYtvvg28

Well...





Geez....are there any videos of brothas who are anti interracial? dry.gif




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