Everyday i see bare intelligent, kind, conscious, lovely, beautiful African women who are single, whilst the hoodrats have all these line of men who wants to deal with them? Then these hoodrats gets pregnant, and we have just about any tom, dick and harry talking about the ISSUES between black men and women? Pluuuzzeee......as an African woman who is desire an AFRICAN MAN in the future, i don't see what i could possibly learn from all this polemics.
Exactly. I know plenty of men who SEEK(by seek i mean thru their actions) only to deal with the "hoodrat", "chickenhead" type of female(in spite of all their talk of wanting something different), yet when things go wrong, want to complain to NON hoodrat, chickenhead women about it,lol, and paint us all with same brush. Personally, I don't wanna hear that shit. I think a lot of times, men choose to deal with a certain ilk of woman, because they know she won't place any expectations on them. In other words, if SHE is lax as far as a work ethic, morals, ambition, he won't have to worry about her perceiving/caring that HIS act is raggedy in those areas,lol. Sounds like a match made in heaven, to me.
I could not care less, if some bros find that type of woman desirable. If they like it, I love it, as we say here. My issue is, be real with yourself about it, and don't whine and complain about the very predicatable(except for the slow among us), consequences of those actions. In other words, if you're going to marry a prostitute, knock yourself out, but when you come home and catch her servicing customers on your kitchen table, keep the crying and bitching to yourself, thank your very much.